我们在一起已经两年了，但我们从来没有在同一个地方生活了超过六个星期。我为巡回演出百老汇经理。It’s pretty much constant travel—and it can be something like a week in Durham and then a week in Charlotte, or six weeks in Chicago and four in D.C. Long-distance was our norm, so leading up to quarantine, we didn’t know what was going to happen. We probably see each other every four to six weeks for a weekend at a time. The tour provides my housing, so when it shut down I wrapped everything up, sent everyone home, and came straight here. It was a bit of a no-brainer. It wasn’t like, “Oh, my gosh, we have to take this big step in our relationship.” It’s going great! We have a good routine set up so that we’re not in each other’s face all the time in a small one-bedroom. I’ll do the dishes, but I won’t touch the Roomba! Down the road, when there’s a dog in the picture, i know he won’t be touching dog poop. We did have to talk about money a bit—I was fully willing to pay rent, but he doesn’t let me, which is fine. I do the groceries and the coffee. I, by nature, am a planner, but have had to reckon with the fact that it’s impossible to plan under these conditions. We’ve talked about moving into a bigger place or getting a house, but none of that is concrete right now. Right now we can’t plan, but we plan to plan again when we can plan!