Yes,amazing suggestions!I think second weddings have the potential to be so much cooler anyways. You've already lived and learned,you know what's going to feel meaningful or not,and you're over the parental obligations and financially-draining pressures! Yet another reason why I'd have no problem dating a divorced guy.Then again,I wouldn't have a problem dating* anyone *at this point!
Had a few romantic prospects this week and nothing felt right. Nada.Numb.Self-imposed dry spell. Can't bring myself to do the online thing -- check outPseudo Dating. Hmmmm. Don't want a friends-with-benefits disaster.Continue to crave the Mr.Unavailables. And the newest obstacle?I keep meeting "maybes" who have been *tagged *by one of my girlfriends. Not even touching that!Well,at least I'm not dealing with this woman's downward,then upward,then downward spiral -- although her blog killlls me --You Left Me After Ten Years,Now I'm Trying To Get Over You,Asshole!
But I digress...
Another recently engaged friend was given 2 options by her parents. Take x-amount of money and throw a lovely wedding.Or,take x-amount and use it towards something more practical (ie down-payment on a home,college loans,investments,etc.).They're strongly encouraging her to elope and use the money more wisely. Incidentally,my parents have the same philosophy. Would you rather have a wedding or stash the cash??