My sister did!Well,let me clarify: they went on ONE,excruciating date.They met on an online dating site and really hit it off.But there was only one problem.她不是身体上的吸引他…。She sucked it up and went on a first date even though he was not her type to see if they'd hit it off in person,but boy is she regretting it now.
Alright,here's the story straight from my poor sister,Heather:
"So I met 'S' on a dating website and although I wasn't immediately physically attracted to him,he was a really nice guy and made me laugh.We exchanged a few messages and eventually started to text with the idea being that we would go on a date the following Saturday (dinner and ice skating,aww).We really seemed to click and we even talked on the phone a few times,once for over two hours.Although he wasn't my usual type,I figured I'd give it a chance since we were really connecting.
Two days after we started texting S started telling me how much he really liked me and I thought it was cute.But he started questioning why I joined a dating website in Florida if I was planning to move to New York in a few months."What happens if you meet someone you really like?" And then he told me that if we really hit it off he'd move to NYC for me.Umm,I probably should've ran then but I just took it as him being sweet and ignored the me being creeped out part.
That Tuesday he told me he didn't want to wait until Saturday for our date and was pushing to come over and watch a movie at my place,but I was busy,so I told him we could go out to dinner the next day.When we met at the restaurant Iinstantlyfound S unattractive but we had a great time!There were no silent moments,no awkward conversation and things really seemed to flow.I thought "well,it's not love at first sight but there might actually be something here".But no.That was the end of anything good going on in the date.
He invited himself over to watch a movie at my place and I was a little taken aback and answered yes too quickly.He followed me back to my place and I put onWhen Harry Met Sally(my all time favorite movie),but I should've instantly known this was not going to end well when my cat did not like him (she LOVES everyone).S instantly got awkward and I could tell he was trying to make a move.He kept laughing and saying "What?" when I looked at him and began rubbing my arm telling me how soft my skin was...umm it kind of made me feel like I was inSilence of the Lambs("It puts the lotion on its skin",anyone?).Anyway he finally looked at me and asked me if he could kiss me and I said yes...which I still regret!HE WAS THE WORST KISSER...EVER!It was like kissing a black hole.I don't know where his lips were but I'm pretty sure they were hanging out somewhere around my chin and under my nose.He banged his teeth against mine and breathed wayyy too heavily into my ear.
That's when I found out about his fetish.No,no,nothing to do with my feet thankfully,but he told me he liked to "listen to girls' heart beats".This was followed by: "I can hear your heart beat in your neck…it's totally hot".It's safe to say I was thrilled when the movie ended.I told him I had to be up early for work the next day and that he had to leave.When he was finally out of my apartment I ran to my bedroom and called my best friend to tell her how horrible it had all been and tried to figure out how to tell him it was definitely not going to work.I got advice from my BFF and my mom (of course Melissa was on a cruise and out of reach) and told him the next day that I didn't feel a connection and didnotthink we should see each other anymore.Less than two minutes later I got a notification from Facebook that he had unfriended me.I was thrilled!It was easier than I had thought.Until the next day when I got his NUMEROUS texts asking what he did wrong...and then why I didn't like him...what he could do differently.I'm still hoping he'll stop texting me!"